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cravethatrave-deactivated201105 asked: i had to make a new tumblr lol . if u still wanna follow me its whydidyoukillthehostages.tumblr.com :P

Well… It didn’t let me follow.

Anonymous asked: I've been putting out fire with gasoline. I've been making tons of mistakes and regretting every single one of them. I'm always upset and now i'm turning to drugs and shameful things. I'm disappointing a ton of people who care about me. I'm doing bad in school. I've been trying to keep my mouth shut, but I'm not that kind of person. So i've been living with things and trying to push them aside. Next year i'm going to a new school so i'll only be with 1/5 of the people i'm with now. Which is okay, but i don't know how to accept myself until then. I'm 13. Just thought I'd share and rant.

Well, I think you should start by quitting the drugs and shameful things because that’s making everything worse. You shouldn’t do things you regret and if you feel like you’re going to, just stop yourself. It’s okay to make mistakes, all of us do. Think of it as a new beginning when you go to your new school and you could change things for the better from there. :D

Anonymous asked: Hi. I like your tumblr. It's a very nice thought.

A rather dumb incident happened lately that's made me so tired of the internet (yet I'm on tumblr. ironic, I know) and all the haters out there. The incident made me realise how close to home haters can be. That they're not necessarily just faceless assholes somewhere out there. I tried to let it go, I even deactivated my facebook account. Any suggestions?

(A little background - I'm not a slut or troll or anything. I just stood up for something I believed in. But now I'm not sure that was worth even believing in and standing up for)

Well… If it meant something to you then it was worth it. BUT! If you still enjoy being on Facebook, I don’t think you should have deactivated. You’re just showing the “Haters” that they have won. You could just block them on Facebook or whatever.

Yesterday was day of silence…. If you participated. Like this. And you may share your experiences in the ask box.

be-hot-like-fire asked: thank you so much for the reply, you really helps me
i'm so glad i met your tumblr.
when you need something.. i'm here for you too :D
thanks

Wow! :D Thank you…. I’m glad I helped you…! :D And all right! :D 

Anonymous asked: who runs this?

I do.

carmenjanet asked: Thank you for the follow! <3

<3

Anonymous asked: I love someone unrequitedly. Help me. :(

Well… This must be hard. It really must be hard. I could tell you just to get over that person, but that’s not simple neither. So, to get over it… I think you should just talk around with more people and be more social and active and maybe/hopefully you’ll find someone that loves you back. You can’t make that person love you back. So, all you have to do is move on. And just talk around and get new people in your life that will have you not focus on that person. I hope everything works out for you. 

be-hot-like-fire asked: well, i have this friend, he's my best friend. and he loves me.. like, boyfriend/girlfriend. but i dont like him the same. just one times i like him so much , but is for a little time. saturday i will see him, because we just talk on the internet, and i dont know what to do. and i'm sorry for the bad english, i hope you understands me

You have to be honest. Tell him exactly how you feel. I know you care about him and how he will feel, but you just have to be honest. You don’t want to lead him on and make things worse. Even if it’s hard to tell him, you have to. It’s better for him to know, so he doesn’t get his hopes up and make it worse. And if you like him sometimes, share that with him. Maybe in the future there could be a chance of you two going out. And… The internet doesn’t really…. Give the BEST impressions. So, wait until you meet him for good and see what happens from there. :D